"And it came to pass that I beheld a tree, whose fruit was desirable to make one happy."
-Lehi's vision of the Tree of Life
"The family is ordained of God."
- The Family: A Proclamation to the World
Thanks to the restored priesthood power of God, an eternity of family joy has become our regular course of thought. We may not think of this when the house is a mess, the kids are crying, the diapers are stinky, the food is burnt, the bills are due, the road is long, or the day is dark. We may not even think about our eternal family when the sun is shining, the house is clean, and everyone is happy. But, just like the green highway signs that don't always list our final destination, when we are following the easily discernible example of Jesus Christ, we will reach the end goal of an eternal family. And that brings a lot more joy to our journey as well. Like the Family Proclamation says, "Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded up on the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ."
This is a small version of our family tree. Since we have the restored gospel, "family life" for us includes our grandparents, cousins, etc. Even though there has been a lot done on our family history, or rather because there has been a lot done, we have lots and lots of starting points to look for other people who we can help connect to the family. With our big family can you imagine how many cousins are linked to our family tree?!
I know that the leaders of the church have talked about a lot of blessings from family history work. They talk about protection from temptation, blessings from serving others, and blessings from actings as saviors for these people. Well, I was reading an article that talks about blessings for the family right here right now! In the link below, it talks about families who know their history. Families who know their history are more connected and the kids are more likely to deal better with adversity. The article says that the best family narrative is one where there are stories about the good times and about the bad times. When the family feels connected to something bigger than themselves, they are more likely to take courage through the difficult moments.
I love you all, and I want you to experience these blessings. I want you to try it out! Take a look on FamilySearch, look at the hints on the right side, look up the tutorial videos, talk to a friend, learn the stories, try indexing, find the names, go to the temple, and reap the blessings!
Just like the tree described by Lehi, our family tree contains fruit that is "desirable to make (us) happy". God has given us family life where we can experience the blessings of the gospel, be changed by the power of Christ's Atonement, be strengthened by our efforts together, and become an eternal family.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/17/fashion/the-family-stories-that-bind-us-this-life.html
Storytelling is a powerful teacher as you say. In one of my classes that power was highlighted as a way to pass on family morals as well as traditions. I'll have to try to find the article we read, but yours is very readable and makes the same points. Thanks for sharing. Just yesterday, Dad, James and I gave the sacrament meeting at the assisted living home. James and I both talked about family history. James bore his testimony about the way he feels ancestors close when he performs temple baptisms. We are blessed with an amazing family tree. Thanks for this thoughtful post.
ReplyDeleteI've also been thinking recently about showing my children and grandchildren California - where I grew up, went to school and church, the beach of course. We need to plan a family reunion sometime in California.
ReplyDeleteI would love that!!
DeleteSomething really neat in Heather's family is that they really know their heritage. She said growing up her grandparents whenever they were around would tell stories and help everyone remember where they came from.
ReplyDeleteI like that John!
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